In Her Own Words
About Her
I took the time to let you in on a piece of who I am. Pls read my profile carefully - twice if you have to - and let it sink in what Im saying and be honest with yourself. If Im not your "type", save yourself and me the time and skip to the next profile :-) Also, pls understand and respect the fact that I will not waste your time and mine to reply to a mail if I do not feel comfortable or convinced that there is something that lures me to connect.
I am the proud owner of beautiful scars and magnificent flaws. I can type a list of all the things that are important to me like independence, integrity, authenticity, adventure, health, nature, humility, balance, fun, intelligence, depth, values, consistency, meditation, vibration, energy etc - all those beautiful things that I too continually need to improve on, but only time can tell you the truth about me.
I know who I am and at peace with myself. I do not need anyone to complete me, entertain me or approve me. I am careful on what/who I spend my energy, time and money on. I am in introvert, but that doesn't make me shy. If I have an opinion, I will share it with you - unafraid. It also means I need to replenish my energy and need alone time/me-time. If you need my attention 24/7, I will suffocate and you will starve.
I am independent and self sufficient and don’t need your money. I am not religious, but I am spiritual. If you are a traditional "committed Christian", I will not be the one for you. I believe in God, but not in man-made/controlled ideas and dogma. I am on my own journey of discovering those things we were never told and unlearning the things we were told.
So - on the lighter side of things - I love nature, music, beauty, the sea, philosophy, learning, traveling, adventure, sunsets, intellectual conversations, honesty, DIY, am a home body, not afraid of doing something new. I value and enjoy the simple, yet beautiful things in life. I am comfortable in a neat, pleasant and peaceful home environment and not afraid of silence.
About Her Ideal Match
Someone who speaks my language so I don't have to spend a lifetime translating my spirit. Someone who is both my safe place and my biggest adventure. I want to journey with that one person who's flaws and beauty is compatible with mine. My heart will know, and my head will agree. I want to enjoy doing life and adventures with you! A confident, spiritual (not religious) person who is secure in who he is and at peace with himself, not needing to impress anyone. You can "tick all the boxes on paper", but I need to be attracted to you. The rest is details.
Side notes:
* I am not here for a fling - pls pass.
*I am not OK with a coach potato, smoking and being very/ visibly overweight person - pls pass.
* If I can add recent photo's, pls return the favor. I will not talk to a faceless person. Admit it or not, what someone looks like, matters.
*I do prefer to look up to my man when I wear stiletto’s at times, so I do prefer you to be at least 1,78m+ :-)
* Last by not least - friends first!
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
55 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
162cm (5' 3.8") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
50 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
178cm (5' 10.1") - 200cm (6' 6.7") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Mild; Optimistic; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Date Activities: |
Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Instrumental; Latin; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Interests: |
Gardening; Photography; Reading; Woodworking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Sugar-free; Carb-free |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using SimplyLove: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |
